Beautiful muslim society infected by disease and we all are happy with social gathering and amusement

লিখেছেন লিখেছেন মহিউডীন ১৮ ফেব্রুয়ারি, ২০১৩, ১০:৫৯:১৬ রাত

Assalamualaykum. The days passed are the best and coming days are worse. Why I am uttering these words perhaps few of us knows those are watching media and reading news paper daily basis. I remember my early days of my life we were leading good life with family , friends and relatives. The society was not worse like the days passing. In between many of us left from the world. This is the reality we all will face the same in our life wherever we are. This topic will help all of us including our new generation those are habituated in English in their daily life and not understanding even their mother tongue. Specially, I think it will help them to understand and find the light of basic Islam and what is happening in our society. Perhaps some of us aware , there are many chronic diseases are affected to us. The illness of human being is not coming suddenly. There are some sources like genetics, bacteria, poor nutrition, viruses, parasites and fungi etc. Any human being are not inviting or expecting diseases , if any disease affected, everyone wants to control or prevent the same. There are many kinds of diseases are affected to present society from which , I am highlighting some, which can be help us and our generation to survive from the destruction. We all must work for our muslim community to present a peaceful society.

However, the world today is suffering from a terrible disease , a philosophy , an ideology which affected all of us individually , socially and every corner of the society. Every one of us are enjoying a materialistic life. I am telling what it is ?.

Our situation in the country is worse. Politics is spread now every corner of the society including institutions and student politics is in front. All the parties have “Youth league” those are controlling school , college , university and society. No one is in politics for learning and thinking for the development of the country. Most of those are coming to gain material benefits and this is only reason people are losing life , damaging wealth and unstable society with us. One awamiligue Minister was expressing his opinion about Cahatroleague that it has loosen its previous prestige due to the activity of the present chatroleague worker. I was surprised to read another news about a professor and he stated in daily “ Prothom Aloo”. I am asking professor Zafar Iqbal who is professing in Shahjalal University passed a comment only for shibir. I am not speaking on behalf of shibir. I am a Bangladeshi and all are my muslim brothers. He was telling “in those age when boys and girls are falling in love why “ shibir” are not respecting that feeling.” I am not seeing the teachers, Learned of the country and susil somaj except Mr. Mahmudur Rahman written against this speech. Do all our learned are accepting his words? I think shibir has learnt from Quran and Hadith that this is a guilt and shameful task for muslim. If Professor Zafar Iqbal inspired this and if it is happening for his daughter how he will feel?

I think we have time to think and Government take initiative to establish a healthy teaching environment and to warn like these teachers for those institutions for the betterment of our generation. We have read in some books in the history , after 1905 to defeat “Bongo Bhongo” a kind of young hindu’s inspired to be unmarried whole of their life and make movement against British to be freed the country. Master the surjo sen also one of them. Sorot Chandra Chottopaddhai has written a book named “ Pother Dabi” The main character of that book “ Sobbo shaci” also unmarried. But I think from jamaet e islam , there is no ideological cause for this which Professor Zafar Iqbal Explained. In sura Hadid verse 27 Allah announced “ they have discovered the ideology of un-marraying , I din’t send this rule”. Universities are not safe for our children now a days. These are the sign for ruining Islamic ideology from the society. Where are the leaders those are leading for ladies? We are seeing the possession and seminar for them and speaking against humanity. Daily “Protidin” pressed a report In 6th December that 15 years old school student named mahela, who was the daughter of a riksawpuller from Madupur, raped by some scoundrel and 21 days are fighting with death pain in hospital. There is a survey in 2012 that 800 ladies are raped all over the country. In india when the incident happened, the country has gone to burst including government. But in Bangladesh for this incident there is no sound except some. I am giving thanks to Mr. Kader siddiqi , who wrote an article in “Amar Desh” and rose his voice that the whole country is under rape and he made valid criticism against Government and opposition. If any of our government is not go forward for justice what does it mean? Where we are now? Most of us are in under politics. When any political worker will be affected than the voice is coming vigorously. If any innocent is dying no one is opening the mouth. Why? I think we have lost our sympathy due to materialistic life. Even the woman leaders I din’t find any sound from them. Those woman leaders are speaking many times against islam and throwing worse question that Allah has made discrepancy for them. Man and woman is the best creation of Allah swt. And they are created by nature. Allah swt knows what is to be necessary for man and woman. Accordingly he justified them. I am answering their some questions. Usually they are telling about the equal right of man and woman , man will get 72 beautiful ladies(hur) in paradise and man is marrying four ladies why they cannot do? They were throwing many questions like that in the seminar. Once I was watching in TV , a seminar which held “Chin maître Sommelon” and was presiding a hindu woman leader perhaps her name “Hena Das” and one of Adviser from our government office expressed a nice wording that “ For achieving the target women will be the partner of man” and this is the true word. Anyway ,A man has capability and sura nisa verse 3 Allah swat. explained “marry two, three ,four and if you cannot make justification marry only one” if all of you verify in the society, you will find few people got married more than one. Those who married more than one they have specific valid reason is there and I have seen many couple is running well. If it is happened for a woman what will be the situation? if four person are coming to her at a time for fulfilling sexual desire? Is she will be capable to meet the situation? We have seen most of the ladies when they are exceeding 40, they have no capability to have one husband. If any new born come, who will be responsible for him/her? Do four person will agree to accept it? for this there should be an amendment in the constitution and the case will go on long run perhaps their life will finish but case will be kept pending in court. For distribution of wealth Allah swt explained in sura nisa verse 11 explained “ Male will receive double than female” why? Female is going to be married and leaving parents house. Parents responsibility is shouldering by a male. If father has loan male is the one repaying on behalf of father. Even if sister is divorced or having any problem with her husband, male is the one solving the problem. I have seen some places when father’s sisters had monetary problem they are coming to their nephew. But there are some parents in the society are making discrepancy between children due to ignorance. May Allah Bless them to make an amendment for the reality. I am requesting my sisters those are in the road are speaking against islam , must study Quran and hadith to know how Allah swt. Justified not only human being but also for other creature. Allah swt. Has given respect to the woman in all the stages respected as a wife, as a mother, as a sister, as a daughter. Devil wants them to display in front of other devils and the woman need to realize the truth by following Islamic way of life. We have seen once it is displayed in most of the news paper, a student leader of Zahangir Nagar university has made century by raping. What action has taken by the government?

Most of the people of our country are silent when these things are happening and these scoundrels are doing again and again but no action is going to be taken against them. In Bangladesh around 90% people are muslim. A percentage of muslim are involved in politics. In 1971 a group were supporting Pakistanis but most of other muslim are innocent. But why the left minded learned are announcing against islam? And they are under the shade of islam. In social culture islam is avoided. In the cinema or drama we are seeing mans wearing islami dress, with beard and a turban in head but playing negative role. And when any religious person died very few leftist are joining in janaja. While any leftist died their dead body is moving door to door. Allah swt. Kept a position for religious people here and in hereafter. Because when anyone dies his right is to send him grave as soon as possible. It is not very far , in india when they are making any advertisement in TV channel on the occasion of PUJA (worship) for Soap or any other thing , they are highlighting and respecting their religion very fantastic way. But our people hating when they are seeing a man with beard and with a turban in his head. This is the way they are insulting islam. Aisah ® was expressing her view, I am grateful to Allah swt. that He was beautifying a man by beard. If you people are insulting islam why you are in this shade? We know the Christian , the hindus , the buddist according to their culture. But you muslim staying in muslim shade and harming islam. In islam these are called hypocrite (monapik). In our media there is no chance to announce real thought of islam. There are some invented or false hadith explained in various religious occasion and the general people are worshipping accordingly. I am suggesting all of you , if you hear any hadith from those media verify it from Sohi Bukhari or Sohi Muslim than you can justify it is correct or wrong. But most of our muslim following new invention and avoiding real sunnah. We have to respect our wife , sister and daughters. Allah has given a boundary for us to run in this life and not to follow so called freedom of life which is destroying ourselves here and hereafter. What the ladies made fault that those have captured by police from a house? They were learning islam and if they are doing anything wrong against government court will justify. But we have seen in news paper the ladies are insulted by police. They are the nation of mother. we have to respect them. No one can take the rule in his hand. Even a thief when is caught no one can torture him. He must be handed to police and court of the country will justify. Any prosperous country national forces are working for the people. Their work to help the citizen. But when our people are seeing police force they are angry and try to flee suddenly from them. The reason is, most of them are entangle in malpractice. If you go police station for valid reason , will not find justice rather than you will be harassed. Why the Governments respective administration is not looking when university students are doing adultery in the university yard in front of other students or seating near central masjid or the grave. Why you are not capturing boys and girls when they are doing evil things in the night of December 31st ? Go to the park area any sensible person cannot move there. Why this sort of mal practice and in-justification? O muslim ? fear Allah. One day you will stand in front of Allah and accountable to him for your action. Make proper justification for the mankind. That will be better for the society.

Look what happened in 31st 2012 and every year muslims are following the same with other nations. Chittagong is the second city of Bangladesh, one week back of 31st December all hotel , motel , resorts, private houses booked and many people slept in the car and in open area. Why? They wanted to enjoy 31st night and all the hotels arranged concert by bringing national artiste and artiste from india and to see the first rising sun of the new year 2013. In these days you will find most of our young generation there. Long ago I have seen in my eye. Many boys and girls have gone there with school, college and university trips. When they reach there, boys and girls left to enjoy in sea-beach. Did those parents thought about their children for their security? In these days millions of corruptions are happening. We have to think and we have to control our generation from these diseases. Did any muslim thought that we should worship this night because another new year is coming and I have done a lot of mistakes during the previous year. No, they were not in the right way. If you ask them there is an Islamic seminar or you need to contribute for the orphans and widows of the society , you will find them in a miserable condition. This way they are avoiding islam. Allah swt. also explained in sura Taha verse 124-126 “ those who will return from my way surely his bread will be lessen and in the day of judgment they will come with blind eye. They will ask o lord! In the world we had eye and you brought us with blindness. Allah will tell them , you received my direction in the world but you avoided and you will be hated today. Recently in America 20 years boy killed 23 infant student and 4 adult including his mother. if you go back history first world war in hirosima died 150,000 and Nagasaki 75000 , 2nd world war hitler killed 6 million jew , Gulf war ( Iraq iran war) ( Iraq kuet) , bosnia horzigibina , ithiopian starvation so on , how many people died, Palestine 67 years how people are dying , in the name of Arab spring how many people dying and wealth damaging every day. If you watch news daily basis , every country how many are killing due to social crisis and how many are making suicide will find the statistics. Prophet (peace be upon him) said , “ If anyone save a person he saved all people in the world and if anyone killed a person he killed all persons in the world” So all these are happening due to the materialistic life not to achieve peace for the mankind.

Actually why it is happening? It is due to frustration , depression , discrimination in the society, due to enmity, Displaying sexual activity in media. This is an empty life , a meaningless life and most of those people are far away from religion. It is the curse of consumer society. It’s giving us destruction. You will find people enjoying in the party , bar , five star hotels , laughing but inside is empty , miserable life and not satisfied at all. If you notice worldwide in non-muslim society how many OLD AGE HOME? It came in Bangladesh muslim society and called BRIDDAH ASROM. In some special cases the old age home are established where the old people will stay, whom has no one to be cared. But the consumer society developed it now when any people will be old the children will transfer them there. Because old people cannot walk properly ,they are sick , they need to go to toilet , who will take care of them?. So any one expert will be taken care of in BRIDDAH ASROM. In west, government is taking care of those old age home. But in poor countries it is running by some of the humanity and other people perhaps donating for it. Many parents are overlooked and themselves are searching where are these Briddah Asrom. By throwing them the children are enjoying their life. I asked many Christian about this. In 25th December or good Friday or any other day 10 years they have no communication with them. I think most of the parents are responsible for that. Most of our generation now build their children through English medium school. For learning English or any other language is good habit and it will help. But a kind of people are taken it now as an ideology so that they can earn more money by going Europe , America so on. This is the reason in Bangladesh BRIDDAH ASROM is establishing many places. In muslim society we could not expect like this situation. This is due to the hatrance of Quran and Sunnah. For worshipping Him and taking care of the parents Allah Expressed In sura Nisa verse 36 and sura Bani Israil verse 23/24 described “ Worship Allah don’t associate anything with him and then make very good treatment and behavior and take care of parents?” In my view point children are not 100% responsible for this. Prophet (peace be upon him) said every human being born in nature and parents are directing them jew and Christian”. No one wants to learn Quran and sunnah , no one wants to teach these , few of the muslim are delivering dawa. We have no problem to read volume of books of other writers. We can study of volumes for our bright future but if anyone is asking for Quran we are telling it is hard. Is it true my brothers? Allah said in Al Quran I made easier for you this Quran so that you can lead a good life. If you leave your religion and availing materialistic life what does it mean? Allah has sent us to make pure worship and in beginning we must learn and teach our children Quran and sunnah than the worldly education that will be a logic. Islamic history is telling to have a simple life. If you have enough wealth and money religion will leave from you. That is the reason most of the followers of prophet (peace be upon him) din’t ask for wealth and money and were leading their life very simple way.

Here is the story of Rabiah Ibn Kab, one of the great follower of Prophet(peace be upon him) told in his own words: "I was still quite young when the light of iman(belief) shone through me and my heart was opened to the teachings of Islam. And when my eyes beheld the Messenger of God, for the first time, I loved him with a love that possessed my entire being. I loved him to the exclusion of everyone else. One day I said to myself, Woe to you, Rabi'ah. Why don't you put yourself completely in the service of the Messenger of God, peace be on him. Go and suggest this to him. If he is pleased with you, you would find happiness in being near him. You will be successful through love for him and you will have the good fortune of obtaining the good in this world and the good in the next.' This I did hoping that he would accept me in his service. He did not dash my hopes. He was pleased that I should be his servant. From that day, I lived in the shadow of the noble Prophet. I went with him wherever he went. I moved in his orbit whenever and wherever he turned. Whenever he cast a glance in my direction, I would leap to stand in his presence. Whenever he expressed a need, he would find me hurrying to fulfill it.

I would serve him throughout the day. When the day was over and he had prayed Salat al-Isha (night prayer) and retired to his home, I would think about leaving. But I would soon say to myself ,Where would you go, Rabi'ah? Perhaps you may be required to do something for the Prophet during the night.' So I would remain seated at his door and would not leave the threshold of his house. The Prophet would spend part of his night engaged in Salat (prayer). I would hear him reciting the opening chapter of the Quran and he would continue reciting sometimes for a third or a half of the night. I would become tired and leave or my eyes would get the better of me and I would fail asleep. It was the habit of the Prophet, peace be on him, that if someone did him a good turn, he loved to repay that person with something more excellent. He wanted to do something for me too in return for my service to him. So one day he came up to me and said: 'O Rabi'ah ibn Kab.' 'Labbayk ya rasulullah wa Sadark - At your command, O Messenger of God and may God grant you happiness,' I responded. 'Ask of me anything and I will give it to you. 'I thought a little and then said: 'Give me some time, O Messenger of God, to think about what I should ask of you. Then I will let you know.' He agreed. At that time, I was a young man and poor. I had neither family, nor wealth, nor place of abode. I used to shelter in the Suffah( of the mosque with other poor Muslims like myself). People used to call us the "guests of Islam". Whenever any Muslim brought thing in charity to the Prophet, he would send it all to us. And if someone gave him a gift he would take some of it and leave the rest for us. So, it occurred to me to ask the Prophet for some worldly good that would save me from poverty and make me like others who had wealth, wife and children. Soon, however, I said: 'May you perish Rabi'ah. The world is temporary and will pass away. You have y our share of sustenance in it which God has guaranteed and which must come to you. The Prophet, peace be on him, has a place with his Lord and no request would be refused him. Request him therefore, to ask Allah to grant you something of the bounty of the hereafter.' I felt pleased and satisfied with this thought.

I went to the Prophet and he asked: 'What do you say, O Rabi'ah?' 'O Messenger of God,' I said, 'I ask you to beseech God most High on my behalf to make me your companion in Paradise. ''Who has advised you thus?' asked the Prophet.' No by God,' I said, 'No one has advise me. But when you told me 'Ask of me anything and I will give to you,' I thought of asking you for something of the goodness of this world. But before long, I was guided to choose what is permanent and lasting agains t what is temporary and perishable. And so I have asked you to beseech God on my behalf that I may be your companion in Paradise.'The Prophet remained silent for a long while and then asked: 'Any other request besides that, Rabi'ah?' 'No, O Messenger of God, Nothing can match what I have asked you.' 'Then, in that case, assist me for your sake by performing much prostration to God.' So I began to exert myself in worship in order to attain the good fortune of being with the Prophet in Paradise just as I had the good fortune of being in his service and being his companion in this world.

Not long afterwards, the Prophet called me and asked: 'Don't you want to get married, Rabi'ah?' 'I do not want anything to distract me from your service,' I replied. 'Moreover, I don't have anything to give as mahr (dowry) to a wife nor any place where I can accommodate a wife.'The Prophet remained silent. When he saw me again he asked: 'Don't you want to get married, Rabi'ah?' I gave him the same reply as before. Left to myself again, I regretted what I had said and chided myself: 'Woe to you, Rabi'ah. By God, the Prophet knows better than you what is good for you in this world and the next and he also knows better than you what you possess. By God, if the Prophet, peace be on him, should ask me again to marry, I would reply positively.'Before long, the Prophet asked me again: 'Don't you want to get married 'Rabi'ah?''Oh yes, Messenger of God,' I replied, 'but who will marry me when I am in the state you know.' 'Go to the family of so-and-so and say to them: the Prophet has instructed you to give your daughter in marriage to me.' Timidly, I went to the family and said: 'The Messenger of God, peace be on him, has sent me to you to ask you to give your daughter in marriage to me.' 'Our daughter?' they asked, incredulously at first. 'Yes,' i replied.' Welcome to the Messenger of God, and welcome to his messenger. By God, the messenger of God's Messenger shall only return with his mission fulfilled. 'So they made a marriage contract between me and her. I went back to the Prophet and reported:' O Messenger of Allah. I have come from the best of homes. They believed me, they welcomed me, and they made a marriage contract between me and their daughter.

But from where do I get the mahr for her?'The Prophet then sent for Buraydah ibn al-Khasib, one of the leading persons in my tribe, the Banu Asiam, and said to him: 'O Buraydah, collect a nuwat's weight in gold for Rabi'ah.This they did and the Prophet said to me: 'Take this to them and say, this is the sadaq(gift) of your daughter.' I did so and they accepted it. They were pleased and said, This is much and good.' I went back to the Prophet and told him: 'I have never yet seen a people more generous than they. They were pleased with what I gave them in spite of its being little...Where can I get something for the walimah (marriage feast), O Prophet of God?'The Prophet said to Buraydah 'Collect the price of a ram for Rabi'ah.' They bought a big fat ram for me and then the Prophet told me: 'Go to Aishah and tell her to give you whatever barley she has.'Aishah gave me a bag with seven saas of barley and said: 'By God, we do not have any other food.' I set off with the ram and the barley to my wife's family. They said: 'We will prepare the barley but get your friends to prepare the ram for you.'We slaughtered, skinned and cooked the ram. So we had bread and meat for the walimah(marriage feast). I invited the Prophet and he accepted my invitation.

The Prophet then gave me a piece of land near Abu Bakr's. From then I became concerned with the dunya, with material things. I had a dispute with Abu Bakr over a palm tree.'It is in my land,' I insisted. 'No, it is in my land,' Abu Bakr countered. We started to argue. Abu Bakr cursed me, but as soon as he had uttered the offending word. he felt sorry and said to me: 'Rabiah, say the same word to me so that it could be consi dered as qisas -just retaliation.' 'No by God, I shall not,' I said.'In that case, replied Abu Bakr. 'I shall go the Messenger of God and complain to him about your refusal to retaliate against me measure for measure.'He set off and I followed him. My tribe, the Banu Asiam, also set off behind me protesting indignantly: 'He's the one who cursed you first and then he goes off to the Prophet before you to complain about you!' I turned to them and said: 'Woe to you! Do yo u know who this is? This is As-Siddiq... and he is the respected elder of the Muslims. Go back before he turns around, sees you and thinks that you have come to help me against him. He would then be more incensed and go to the Prophet in anger. The Prophe t would get angry on his account. Then Allah would be angry on their account and Rabi'ah would be finished.' They turned back.Abu Bakr went to the Prophet and related the incident as it had happened. The Prophet raised his head and said to me:'O Rabi'ah, what's wrong with you and as-Siddiq?' 'Messenger of God, he wanted me to say the same words to him as he had said to me and I did not.''Yes, don't say the same word to him as he had said to you. Instead say: 'May God forgive you Abu Bakr.' With tears in his eyes, Abu Bakr went away while saying: 'May God reward you with goodness for my sake, O Rabiah ibn Kab... 'May God reward you with goodness for my sake, O Rabiah ibn Kaab..."

This is one example for one of the follower and you will find most of them are with same character. No one of them had chosen materialistic life. Now look our muslim area. In india , Pakistan and Bangladesh people are going UK or America only to earn money and buy their culture. They are working in restaurants and serving pig and wine. They don’t have prayer. No Islamic culture to be adopted. Only running behind money and the parents are happy when they send big amount and making good house , buying shops and market complex so on. If you visit Sylhet district will find some areas the architectural design of the house like foreign aristocratic area which perhaps costing USD 3 to 4 Lakh in a house. I appreciate for bringing remittance to the country but why the brothers are invested big amount behind house? You know when blood accumulated in one place of the body its alarming for death. If money is not circulating properly and investing idly , it also can cause the death of the society as well as country. This is not their mistake it’s a deficiency of education. Most of them are illiterate and making wrong business like serving restaurants shops and market places from which they are not finding a source of learning Islam. They are making charity also from that money.

Some years ago I was travelling to Jeddah and waiting in Dhaka airport inside the lounge. I was looking a young married couple are going around many of us. When the man are leaving she is kissing the man as west are doing. Not only that, attitude of dresses also has changed for current generation. In west this is their culture. But why she followed because her husband import it from them and they are so called musllim. Many of the young generation build their life accordingly and the next generation will be harmful for society. In middle age we the muslim dominated in most part of the world. We had science and technology , we had religious base , muslims were in power. Why it loosen? When the civilization become rich and wealthy, the morale are declined. People have tendency to enjoy and forget the religion. This was the case for muslim at the time. They dived into comfortable life and lose religious base and the disaster came to them. Look the society now. What is called society? Society means to live together , to earn something together , to help each other. Prophet (peace be upon him) said if any muslim eating and sleeping and his neighbor are without food he is not a believer. If individual establishment is rising, than the society is going to be collapsed. Poverty is going higher and social crisis is increasing. Rich are going to be rich and poor are going to be poor. Un-employment , robbery , adultery , injustice are going to be increased. Corruption is taking away all happiness. You notice last year the young generation of UK around 15 days looted in business centers , killed people. In America the young generation even don’t care to kill for a simple wrist watch. We have divided our society as aristocratic area and normal area. Allah has sent human being with equal right. In sura Hujrat verse 13 explained “ Among you he is the most high in-front of me who has Taqwa (Allah fearing)” All these human maid things are curse of a consumer society. There is no ending of desire. Prophet (peace be upon him) said the son of Adam belly will not be filled without the dust of grave. And told again this world would be for a believer like a “ Passerby” who is staying sometime in the shade of a tree for rest and his destination will be the paradise. Human desire will not be ended till his death.

Our situation in the country is worse. Politics is spread now every corner of the society including institutions and student politics is in front. All the parties have “Youth league” those are controlling school , college , university and society. No one is in politics for learning and thinking for the development of the country. Most of those are coming to gain material benefits and this is only reason people are losing life , damaging wealth and unstable society with us. One awamiligue Minister was expressing his opinion about Cahatroleague that it has loosen its previous prestige due to the activity of the present chatroleague worker. I was surprised to read another news about a professor and he stated in daily “ Prothom Aloo”. I am asking professor Zafar Iqbal who is professing in Shahjalal University passed a comment only for shibir. I am not speaking on behalf of shibir. I am a Bangladeshi and all are my muslim brothers. He was telling “in those age when boys and girls are falling in love why “ shibir” are not respecting that feeling.” I am not seeing the teachers, Learned of the country and susil somaj except Mr. Mahmudur Rahman written against this speech. Do all our learned are accepting his words? I think shibir has learnt from Quran and Hadith that this is a guilt and shameful task for muslim. If Professor Zafar Iqbal inspired this and if it is happening for his daughter how he will feel?

I think we have time to think and Government take initiative to establish a healthy teaching environment and to warn like these teachers for those institutions for the betterment of our generation. We have read in some books in the history , after 1905 to defeat “Bongo Bhongo” a kind of young hindu’s inspired to be unmarried whole of their life and make movement against British to be freed the country. Master the surjo sen also one of them. Sorot Chandra Chottopaddhai has written a book named “ Pother Dabi” The main character of that book “ Sobbo shaci” also unmarried. But I think from jamaet e islam , there is no ideological cause for this which Professor Zafar Iqbal Explained. In sura Hadid verse 27 Allah announced “ they have discovered the ideology of un-marraying , I din’t send this rule”. Universities are not safe for our children now a days. These are the sign for ruining Islamic ideology from the society. Where are the leaders those are leading for ladies? We are seeing the possession and seminar for them and speaking against humanity. Daily “Protidin” pressed a report In 6th December that 15 years old school student named mahela, who was the daughter of a riksawpuller from Madupur, raped by some scoundrel and 21 days are fighting with death pain in hospital. There is a survey in 2012 that 800 ladies are raped all over the country. In india when the incident happened, the country has gone to burst including government. But in Bangladesh for this incident there is no sound except some. I am giving thanks to Mr. Kader siddiqi , who wrote an article in “Amar Desh” and rose his voice that the whole country is under rape and he made valid criticism against Government and opposition. If any of our government is not go forward for justice what does it mean? Where we are now? Most of us are in under politics. When any political worker will be affected than the voice is coming vigorously. If any innocent is dying no one is opening the mouth. Why? I think we have lost our sympathy due to materialistic life. Even the woman leaders I din’t find any sound from them. Those woman leaders are speaking many times against islam and throwing worse question that Allah has made discrepancy for them. Man and woman is the best creation of Allah swt. And they are created by nature. Allah swt knows what is to be necessary for man and woman. Accordingly he justified them. I am answering their some questions. Usually they are telling about the equal right of man and woman , man will get 72 beautiful ladies(hur) in paradise and man is marrying four ladies why they cannot do? They were throwing many questions like that in the seminar. Once I was watching in TV , a seminar which held “Chin maître Sommelon” and was presiding a hindu woman leader perhaps her name “Hena Das” and one of Adviser from our government office expressed a nice wording that “ For achieving the target women will be the partner of man” and this is the true word. Anyway ,A man has capability and sura nisa verse 3 Allah swat. explained “marry two, three ,four and if you cannot make justification marry only one” if all of you verify in the society, you will find few people got married more than one. Those who married more than one they have specific valid reason is there and I have seen many couple is running well. If it is happened for a woman what will be the situation? if four person are coming to her at a time for fulfilling sexual desire? Is she will be capable to meet the situation? We have seen most of the ladies when they are exceeding 40, they have no capability to have one husband. If any new born come, who will be responsible for him/her? Do four person will agree to accept it? for this there should be an amendment in the constitution and the case will go on long run perhaps their life will finish but case will be kept pending in court. For distribution of wealth Allah swt explained in sura nisa verse 11 explained “ Male will receive double than female” why? Female is going to be married and leaving parents house. Parents responsibility is shouldering by a male. If father has loan male is the one repaying on behalf of father. Even if sister is divorced or having any problem with her husband, male is the one solving the problem. I have seen some places when father’s sisters had monetary problem they are coming to their nephew. But there are some parents in the society are making discrepancy between children due to ignorance. May Allah Bless them to make an amendment for the reality. I am requesting my sisters those are in the road are speaking against islam , must study Quran and hadith to know how Allah swt. Justified not only human being but also for other creature. Allah swt. Has given respect to the woman in all the stages respected as a wife, as a mother, as a sister, as a daughter. Devil wants them to display in front of other devils and the woman need to realize the truth by following Islamic way of life. We have seen once it is displayed in most of the news paper, a student leader of Zahangir Nagar university has made century by raping. What action has taken by the government?

Most of the people of our country are silent when these things are happening and these scoundrels are doing again and again but no action is going to be taken against them. In Bangladesh around 90% people are muslim. A percentage of muslim are involved in politics. In 1971 a group were supporting Pakistanis but most of other muslim are innocent. But why the left minded learned are announcing against islam? And they are under the shade of islam. In social culture islam is avoided. In the cinema or drama we are seeing mans wearing islami dress, with beard and a turban in head but playing negative role. And when any religious person died very few leftist are joining in janaja. While any leftist died their dead body is moving door to door. Allah swt. Kept a position for religious people here and in hereafter. Because when anyone dies his right is to send him grave as soon as possible. It is not very far , in india when they are making any advertisement in TV channel on the occasion of PUJA (worship) for Soap or any other thing , they are highlighting and respecting their religion very fantastic way. But our people hating when they are seeing a man with beard and with a turban in his head. This is the way they are insulting islam. Aisah ® was expressing her view, I am grateful to Allah swt. that He was beautifying a man by beard. If you people are insulting islam why you are in this shade? We know the Christian , the hindus , the buddist according to their culture. But you muslim staying in muslim shade and harming islam. In islam these are called hypocrite (monapik). In our media there is no chance to announce real thought of islam. There are some invented or false hadith explained in various religious occasion and the general people are worshipping accordingly. I am suggesting all of you , if you hear any hadith from those media verify it from Sohi Bukhari or Sohi Muslim than you can justify it is correct or wrong. But most of our muslim following new invention and avoiding real sunnah. We have to respect our wife , sister and daughters. Allah has given a boundary for us to run in this life and not to follow so called freedom of life which is destroying ourselves here and hereafter. What the ladies made fault that those have captured by police from a house? They were learning islam and if they are doing anything wrong against government court will justify. But we have seen in news paper the ladies are insulted by police. They are the nation of mother. we have to respect them. No one can take the rule in his hand. Even a thief when is caught no one can torture him. He must be handed to police and court of the country will justify. Any prosperous country national forces are working for the people. Their work to help the citizen. But when our people are seeing police force they are angry and try to flee suddenly from them. The reason is, most of them are entangle in malpractice. If you go police station for valid reason , will not find justice rather than you will be harassed. Why the Governments respective administration is not looking when university students are doing adultery in the university yard in front of other students or seating near central masjid or the grave. Why you are not capturing boys and girls when they are doing evil things in the night of December 31st ? Go to the park area any sensible person cannot move there. Why this sort of mal practice and in-justification? O muslim ? fear Allah. One day you will stand in front of Allah and accountable to him for your action. Make proper justification for the mankind. That will be better for the society.

Look what happened in 31st 2012 and every year muslims are following the same with other nations. Chittagong is the second city of Bangladesh, one week back of 31st December all hotel , motel , resorts, private houses booked and many people slept in the car and in open area. Why? They wanted to enjoy 31st night and all the hotels arranged concert by bringing national artiste and artiste from india and to see the first rising sun of the new year 2013. In these days you will find most of our young generation there. Long ago I have seen in my eye. Many boys and girls have gone there with school, college and university trips. When they reach there, boys and girls left to enjoy in sea-beach. Did those parents thought about their children for their security? In these days millions of corruptions are happening. We have to think and we have to control our generation from these diseases. Did any muslim thought that we should worship this night because another new year is coming and I have done a lot of mistakes during the previous year. No, they were not in the right way. If you ask them there is an Islamic seminar or you need to contribute for the orphans and widows of the society , you will find them in a miserable condition. This way they are avoiding islam. Allah swt. also explained in sura Taha verse 124-126 “ those who will return from my way surely his bread will be lessen and in the day of judgment they will come with blind eye. They will ask o lord! In the world we had eye and you brought us with blindness. Allah will tell them , you received my direction in the world but you avoided and you will be hated today. Recently in America 20 years boy killed 23 infant student and 4 adult including his mother. if you go back history first world war in hirosima died 150,000 and Nagasaki 75000 , 2nd world war hitler killed 6 million jew , Gulf war ( Iraq iran war) ( Iraq kuet) , bosnia horzigibina , ithiopian starvation so on , how many people died, Palestine 67 years how people are dying , in the name of Arab spring how many people dying and wealth damaging every day. If you watch news daily basis , every country how many are killing due to social crisis and how many are making suicide will find the statistics. Prophet (peace be upon him) said , “ If anyone save a person he saved all people in the world and if anyone killed a person he killed all persons in the world” So all these are happening due to the materialistic life not to achieve peace for the mankind.

Actually why it is happening? It is due to frustration , depression , discrimination in the society, due to enmity, Displaying sexual activity in media. This is an empty life , a meaningless life and most of those people are far away from religion. It is the curse of consumer society. It’s giving us destruction. You will find people enjoying in the party , bar , five star hotels , laughing but inside is empty , miserable life and not satisfied at all. If you notice worldwide in non-muslim society how many OLD AGE HOME? It came in Bangladesh muslim society and called BRIDDAH ASROM. In some special cases the old age home are established where the old people will stay, whom has no one to be cared. But the consumer society developed it now when any people will be old the children will transfer them there. Because old people cannot walk properly ,they are sick , they need to go to toilet , who will take care of them?. So any one expert will be taken care of in BRIDDAH ASROM. In west, government is taking care of those old age home. But in poor countries it is running by some of the humanity and other people perhaps donating for it. Many parents are overlooked and themselves are searching where are these Briddah Asrom. By throwing them the children are enjoying their life. I asked many Christian about this. In 25th December or good Friday or any other day 10 years they have no communication with them. I think most of the parents are responsible for that. Most of our generation now build their children through English medium school. For learning English or any other language is good habit and it will help. But a kind of people are taken it now as an ideology so that they can earn more money by going Europe , America so on. This is the reason in Bangladesh BRIDDAH ASROM is establishing many places. In muslim society we could not expect like this situation. This is due to the hatrance of Quran and Sunnah. For worshipping Him and taking care of the parents Allah Expressed In sura Nisa verse 36 and sura Bani Israil verse 23/24 described “ Worship Allah don’t associate anything with him and then make very good treatment and behavior and take care of parents?” In my view point children are not 100% responsible for this. Prophet (peace be upon him) said every human being born in nature and parents are directing them jew and Christian”. No one wants to learn Quran and sunnah , no one wants to teach these , few of the muslim are delivering dawa. We have no problem to read volume of books of other writers. We can study of volumes for our bright future but if anyone is asking for Quran we are telling it is hard. Is it true my brothers? Allah said in Al Quran I made easier for you this Quran so that you can lead a good life. If you leave your religion and availing materialistic life what does it mean? Allah has sent us to make pure worship and in beginning we must learn and teach our children Quran and sunnah than the worldly education that will be a logic. Islamic history is telling to have a simple life. If you have enough wealth and money religion will leave from you. That is the reason most of the followers of prophet (peace be upon him) din’t ask for wealth and money and were leading their life very simple way.

Here is the story of Rabiah Ibn Kab, one of the great follower of Prophet(peace be upon him) told in his own words: "I was still quite young when the light of iman(belief) shone through me and my heart was opened to the teachings of Islam. And when my eyes beheld the Messenger of God, for the first time, I loved him with a love that possessed my entire being. I loved him to the exclusion of everyone else. One day I said to myself, Woe to you, Rabi'ah. Why don't you put yourself completely in the service of the Messenger of God, peace be on him. Go and suggest this to him. If he is pleased with you, you would find happiness in being near him. You will be successful through love for him and you will have the good fortune of obtaining the good in this world and the good in the next.' This I did hoping that he would accept me in his service. He did not dash my hopes. He was pleased that I should be his servant. From that day, I lived in the shadow of the noble Prophet. I went with him wherever he went. I moved in his orbit whenever and wherever he turned. Whenever he cast a glance in my direction, I would leap to stand in his presence. Whenever he expressed a need, he would find me hurrying to fulfill it.

I would serve him throughout the day. When the day was over and he had prayed Salat al-Isha (night prayer) and retired to his home, I would think about leaving. But I would soon say to myself ,Where would you go, Rabi'ah? Perhaps you may be required to do something for the Prophet during the night.' So I would remain seated at his door and would not leave the threshold of his house. The Prophet would spend part of his night engaged in Salat (prayer). I would hear him reciting the opening chapter of the Quran and he would continue reciting sometimes for a third or a half of the night. I would become tired and leave or my eyes would get the better of me and I would fail asleep. It was the habit of the Prophet, peace be on him, that if someone did him a good turn, he loved to repay that person with something more excellent. He wanted to do something for me too in return for my service to him. So one day he came up to me and said: 'O Rabi'ah ibn Kab.' 'Labbayk ya rasulullah wa Sadark - At your command, O Messenger of God and may God grant you happiness,' I responded. 'Ask of me anything and I will give it to you. 'I thought a little and then said: 'Give me some time, O Messenger of God, to think about what I should ask of you. Then I will let you know.' He agreed. At that time, I was a young man and poor. I had neither family, nor wealth, nor place of abode. I used to shelter in the Suffah( of the mosque with other poor Muslims like myself). People used to call us the "guests of Islam". Whenever any Muslim brought thing in charity to the Prophet, he would send it all to us. And if someone gave him a gift he would take some of it and leave the rest for us. So, it occurred to me to ask the Prophet for some worldly good that would save me from poverty and make me like others who had wealth, wife and children. Soon, however, I said: 'May you perish Rabi'ah. The world is temporary and will pass away. You have y our share of sustenance in it which God has guaranteed and which must come to you. The Prophet, peace be on him, has a place with his Lord and no request would be refused him. Request him therefore, to ask Allah to grant you something of the bounty of the hereafter.' I felt pleased and satisfied with this thought.

I went to the Prophet and he asked: 'What do you say, O Rabi'ah?' 'O Messenger of God,' I said, 'I ask you to beseech God most High on my behalf to make me your companion in Paradise. ''Who has advised you thus?' asked the Prophet.' No by God,' I said, 'No one has advise me. But when you told me 'Ask of me anything and I will give to you,' I thought of asking you for something of the goodness of this world. But before long, I was guided to choose what is permanent and lasting agains t what is temporary and perishable. And so I have asked you to beseech God on my behalf that I may be your companion in Paradise.'The Prophet remained silent for a long while and then asked: 'Any other request besides that, Rabi'ah?' 'No, O Messenger of God, Nothing can match what I have asked you.' 'Then, in that case, assist me for your sake by performing much prostration to God.' So I began to exert myself in worship in order to attain the good fortune of being with the Prophet in Paradise just as I had the good fortune of being in his service and being his companion in this world.

Not long afterwards, the Prophet called me and asked: 'Don't you want to get married, Rabi'ah?' 'I do not want anything to distract me from your service,' I replied. 'Moreover, I don't have anything to give as mahr (dowry) to a wife nor any place where I can accommodate a wife.'The Prophet remained silent. When he saw me again he asked: 'Don't you want to get married, Rabi'ah?' I gave him the same reply as before. Left to myself again, I regretted what I had said and chided myself: 'Woe to you, Rabi'ah. By God, the Prophet knows better than you what is good for you in this world and the next and he also knows better than you what you possess. By God, if the Prophet, peace be on him, should ask me again to marry, I would reply positively.'Before long, the Prophet asked me again: 'Don't you want to get married 'Rabi'ah?''Oh yes, Messenger of God,' I replied, 'but who will marry me when I am in the state you know.' 'Go to the family of so-and-so and say to them: the Prophet has instructed you to give your daughter in marriage to me.' Timidly, I went to the family and said: 'The Messenger of God, peace be on him, has sent me to you to ask you to give your daughter in marriage to me.' 'Our daughter?' they asked, incredulously at first. 'Yes,' i replied.' Welcome to the Messenger of God, and welcome to his messenger. By God, the messenger of God's Messenger shall only return with his mission fulfilled. 'So they made a marriage contract between me and her. I went back to the Prophet and reported:' O Messenger of Allah. I have come from the best of homes. They believed me, they welcomed me, and they made a marriage contract between me and their daughter.

But from where do I get the mahr for her?'The Prophet then sent for Buraydah ibn al-Khasib, one of the leading persons in my tribe, the Banu Asiam, and said to him: 'O Buraydah, collect a nuwat's weight in gold for Rabi'ah.This they did and the Prophet said to me: 'Take this to them and say, this is the sadaq(gift) of your daughter.' I did so and they accepted it. They were pleased and said, This is much and good.' I went back to the Prophet and told him: 'I have never yet seen a people more generous than they. They were pleased with what I gave them in spite of its being little...Where can I get something for the walimah (marriage feast), O Prophet of God?'The Prophet said to Buraydah 'Collect the price of a ram for Rabi'ah.' They bought a big fat ram for me and then the Prophet told me: 'Go to Aishah and tell her to give you whatever barley she has.'Aishah gave me a bag with seven saas of barley and said: 'By God, we do not have any other food.' I set off with the ram and the barley to my wife's family. They said: 'We will prepare the barley but get your friends to prepare the ram for you.'We slaughtered, skinned and cooked the ram. So we had bread and meat for the walimah(marriage feast). I invited the Prophet and he accepted my invitation.

The Prophet then gave me a piece of land near Abu Bakr's. From then I became concerned with the dunya, with material things. I had a dispute with Abu Bakr over a palm tree.'It is in my land,' I insisted. 'No, it is in my land,' Abu Bakr countered. We started to argue. Abu Bakr cursed me, but as soon as he had uttered the offending word. he felt sorry and said to me: 'Rabiah, say the same word to me so that it could be consi dered as qisas -just retaliation.' 'No by God, I shall not,' I said.'In that case, replied Abu Bakr. 'I shall go the Messenger of God and complain to him about your refusal to retaliate against me measure for measure.'He set off and I followed him. My tribe, the Banu Asiam, also set off behind me protesting indignantly: 'He's the one who cursed you first and then he goes off to the Prophet before you to complain about you!' I turned to them and said: 'Woe to you! Do yo u know who this is? This is As-Siddiq... and he is the respected elder of the Muslims. Go back before he turns around, sees you and thinks that you have come to help me against him. He would then be more incensed and go to the Prophet in anger. The Prophe t would get angry on his account. Then Allah would be angry on their account and Rabi'ah would be finished.' They turned back.Abu Bakr went to the Prophet and related the incident as it had happened. The Prophet raised his head and said to me:'O Rabi'ah, what's wrong with you and as-Siddiq?' 'Messenger of God, he wanted me to say the same words to him as he had said to me and I did not.''Yes, don't say the same word to him as he had said to you. Instead say: 'May God forgive you Abu Bakr.' With tears in his eyes, Abu Bakr went away while saying: 'May God reward you with goodness for my sake, O Rabiah ibn Kab... 'May God reward you with goodness for my sake, O Rabiah ibn Kaab..."

This is one example for one of the follower and you will find most of them are with same character. No one of them had chosen materialistic life. Now look our muslim area. In india , Pakistan and Bangladesh people are going UK or America only to earn money and buy their culture. They are working in restaurants and serving pig and wine. They don’t have prayer. No Islamic culture to be adopted. Only running behind money and the parents are happy when they send big amount and making good house , buying shops and market complex so on. If you visit Sylhet district will find some areas the architectural design of the house like foreign aristocratic area which perhaps costing USD 3 to 4 Lakh in a house. I appreciate for bringing remittance to the country but why the brothers are invested big amount behind house? You know when blood accumulated in one place of the body its alarming for death. If money is not circulating properly and investing idly , it also can cause the death of the society as well as country. This is not their mistake it’s a deficiency of education. Most of them are illiterate and making wrong business like serving restaurants shops and market places from which they are not finding a source of learning Islam. They are making charity also from that money.

Some years ago I was travelling to Jeddah and waiting in Dhaka airport inside the lounge. I was looking a young married couple are going around many of us. When the man are leaving she is kissing the man as west are doing. Not only that, attitude of dresses also has changed for current generation. In west this is their culture. But why she followed because her husband import it from them and they are so called musllim. Many of the young generation build their life accordingly and the next generation will be harmful for society. In middle age we the muslim dominated in most part of the world. We had science and technology , we had religious base , muslims were in power. Why it loosen? When the civilization become rich and wealthy, the morale are declined. People have tendency to enjoy and forget the religion. This was the case for muslim at the time. They dived into comfortable life and lose religious base and the disaster came to them. Look the society now. What is called society? Society means to live together , to earn something together , to help each other. Prophet (peace be upon him) said if any muslim eating and sleeping and his neighbor are without food he is not a believer. If individual establishment is rising, than the society is going to be collapsed. Poverty is going higher and social crisis is increasing. Rich are going to be rich and poor are going to be poor. Un-employment , robbery , adultery , injustice are going to be increased. Corruption is taking away all happiness. You notice last year the young generation of UK around 15 days looted in business centers , killed people. In America the young generation even don’t care to kill for a simple wrist watch. We have divided our society as aristocratic area and normal area. Allah has sent human being with equal right. In sura Hujrat verse 13 explained “ Among you he is the most high in-front of me who has Taqwa (Allah fearing)” All these human maid things are curse of a consumer society. There is no ending of desire. Prophet (peace be upon him) said the son of Adam belly will not be filled without the dust of grave. And told again this world would be for a believer like a “ Passerby” who is staying sometime in the shade of a tree for rest and his destination will be the paradise. Human desire will not be ended till his death.

বিষয়: বিবিধ

১৩৫৫ বার পঠিত, ০ টি মন্তব্য