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লিখেছেন লিখেছেন মহিউডীন ১৮ ফেব্রুয়ারি, ২০১৩, ১২:২৭:১০ রাত

After a long time, i am recalling a friend who wrote me a letter by the above words and i got severe heart from it. in 1978 i obtained my secondary school certificate from my local school. we were many friends. some friends lost their education after ssc and he is one of them who made above comment. when i left local area very few time i have met those. after passing my university degree , my luck forwarded myself in abroad. My old local friend wrote me many letters according to him but i din't receive. perhaps some one gave him wrong information. later he collected my real postal address and i found a pathetic words. in our school days , it was phantastic environment with a group of best friends. we had a group those were cordial friends and still we are in touch of each other. at least every week we have phone calls. every evening we had group studies. very few of us were depending in tuition the way our children now behind teachers. i have five children. elder one is married. but for all average i have to pay 50 thousand for private tutor but they are not producing result the way we were producing. anyway our group study gave us a life till today we cannot forget each other. every holiday we all friends met together. Sharif - now col. , Mohd hussain Engineer - director Pdb , Erfan-advocate supreme court, Rahim- chartered accountant, mujib-chartered accountant, late shahjahan- business owner,abbas - deputy secretay , Dr kanchon - american citizen so on. very few of us were leading islamic life but we were praying , doing good deed no doubt. we had an habit to move around in week end. from old town to mirpur we had many relatives and neighbors residence were there. just i am making a fun , we were invited from some families those who have girls. Some of us were visiting alone while together. Erfan was talkative and clever. he found some difference in entertainment. when col sharif ( at the time captain) and eng hussain (passed final year in bhuet) were joining the entertainment was really rich. we decided it will not be informed to them. Erfan was a great eater. so he planned every week end will touch some families and ob course col sharif and eng hussain will be join together. four years we enjoyed a nice life which i cannot express more than this. When ever we are talking we remember the days and making fun with each other. why i have given this expression? we have a lot of movement but no one could tell us we had done evil things. We were respecting our parents , superiors , relatives , neighbors and friends as our own. we had cordial relation. today's generation attitude totally different. they have no respect to the superiors at all. there are many reason behind this which i will give detail at the end. So i read the letter of my old friend that he was having many children during the days and daughter is going to be married. i replied without any delay. i din't forget the shop of "abul" where we friends were eating. you recall me a beautiful time i was passing. today i have everything perhaps i am not happy like those days. i replied him " bread and dal" is over the chicken and you are in my heart. we have to remember all our friends even they are far. from the day i started to remember mankind by writing letter , by email , by telephone calls and as the way of a blogger. Allah swt will ask us for our knowledge we distributed or not. we must communicate with our family members , relatives and neighbors. Prophet pbuh said " helping relatives , neighbors and poor is a kind of jihad" . so we have to start from now for the blessing of our lord.

i was told you why our children are losing beautiful life. there are some important thing which i found while last december an incident happened in india.

Last December in india at Delhi 6 persons raped a medical girl named Damini and she died in Singapore an hospital named Mount Elezabeth hospital. What happened? She was coming back from cinema hall with her boy friend and in bus 6 people raped her ,bitten her and throw her from the car. Yes, this a criminal act. But where was the control of the Indian government? It is happened in capital city. It is an open news in the news paper and it affected in Indian politics. Since long time news already been published no state of india is safe including capital city for the woman. These type of criminal act huge in the society but some are publishing due to the expertise of media worker. Many cases the victims are not going to police station for social prestige. Now a day’s most of the Indian citizen are believing this is the worst place for the woman. People are not safe anywhere either travelling by bus , by train or any other transport. After the incident of damini in 3rd January again another incident happened by a powerful Congress Leader named Bikrom sing Borma in west Bengal who was forcing a lady to rape and the lady was calling her husband and the people of the area handed over him to Police. According to police station statistics these kind of social torture increasing day by day. From 2010 – 2012 this number is 1714 but few criminals are punished. This number is the tip of iceberg than the criminal. The social disease not only happened in Delhi everywhere in india spreading now. The day Damini died, another same incident also happened in Delhi. Rajosthan , Gujrat and west Bengal also people are suffering for this type of cases and patients are not secured in hospitals. Recently there is an NGO named Association for democratic reforms pressed editorial. It is explained there are allegation against 6 elected member of various State Bidhan Association. And last five years 27 candidates has chosen whom are involved in same case. Those people of Kashmir and Nagaland are against government, police himself torturing the ladies of these states. In another Indian news paper stated “ women suffer big in india’s vs. rebel’s war”.

Damini was from one of the Indian poor family who was dreaming for a beautiful life. She lost her life by some animal those we cannot tell a human being because this kind of activity can be done by an animal. United Secretary Ban Ki Moon expressed in his opinion “ Every girl and woman has the right to be respected , valued and protected” He was urging Indian government to take positive action for the same. I was astonished to read some news from the news paper that Shahrukh Khan , the bollywood super star expressed his opinion in tuitar “ I feel shame to be one of this unhealthy society and culture.” All the Indians are soul searching now a day’s including Lata mungashkar , Omitab Bacchan , Shabana Ajmi so on. We are not expecting these type of emotion will continue long run in this materialistic society. What is behind this you can find out from Indian culture the work of bollywood and let’s look it. After the incident , I have studied sometime why this type of cases are happening all over the country? I found Two main reason. First one is , People are out from religion. Second is the Bollywood film industry. So I have gone through just looking some scene for my writing purpose only. I found most of the pictures are against humanity and recent pictures are worse. I am asking all of you, is there any learning from these? For building human character nothing is there but it is derailing the generation and they are learning how they can fall in love with each other. If you notice, you will find less number of adults are going to enjoy cinema hall. Most of the young generation are there because when they are looking in the advertisement a sexual refection, as a matter of fact the sleeping mind of the young has risen to watch this and afterwards his brain is working to look a girl. The other problem due to social crisis many of the boys cannot marry on time and they are addicted by adultery, drinking alcohol and gambling a certain period of daily life. I have seen from my early life Bollywood Cinema are exporting worldwide and wherever Indian people are there they have shop for cassette and Cd’s. Those shops are selling Indian blue film also. India is near to us and we have seen before there was no much restriction for people coming and going to this two neighboring countries. Their film is full to the brim in our market and a percent of our young generation are affected by this. Last few years in bollywood cinema displaying a song named “ Item song” which is the worst dance , it is not possible to watch in a family with the children and family members. Surely, it is prohibited for muslim. This has broken the other pornographic Indian cinema. I am sorry to say, just informing the readers not to watch those or keep away your family and children from that. If you look recent production of their cinema not only young generation and the old people also will embrace this type of sexual activities. They have spread it to society and it spread like a disease all over the world. Do you think indian government are sleeping? The producers are earning crore’s from one film. Today Mr. Shahruk Khan is depressed for the worst situation of Indian culture. Why no one heard from him the days what was happening in Indian cinema? Many of the Indian cinema cannot be enjoyed with family members because of necked scene. Did he not act those cinemas? Did he and other actor actresses are not millionaire by this business? Are not these money from poor rikshawpuller and daily workers? I am giving one example from one of the film he acted as Billu Barber in “Love mera hit hit”. If any young unmarried person watching the dance, after cinema show he will surely fall in great danger. Many cinema directors produced dirty picture as Bidya Balan acted a picture named “Dirty picture”. In this picture hottest photos, has many sexy performance, Bed scene with actor and “ Qurban” one of them acted by Saif Ali Khan and Karina kapoor which reflected the secret information of a couple. These are few example and there are a lot of necked film displaying in their society and sucking the blood of the poor people. By watching necked film a young man what he will do? This is the impact of bollywood and spread in every corner of the society. By these films millions of our generation like school and college going students are destroying? Two years back he and some other cinema artiste came for a stage show in Bangladesh. In that function the young girls including rani mukharji were displaying the necked dance which you all aware at the time. That day he gave hurt to millions of religious muslims of the country. I cannot imagine, some parents were interested to send their daughter’s in the stage to display themselves. We have our politician always speaking for the development of the country , speaking for the benefit of the freedom fighters, speaking on behalf of muslim benefit and at the same time they are importing and worshiping this type of non culture. Not only that a minister also enjoyed the function by seating in the floor and he is a muslim. What will learn the generation from this minister? He is leading a ministry and delivering his speech for the betterment of the country. This type of dance is making mad to the young generation and due to that the victims are suffering all over the world. You muslim are watching advertisements and why your voice is not reaching to our government? Some of the advertisements of our media also playing negative role and it affects in the mind of our generation. When Islamic Tv came in the media we thought that our children will be helpful by that but later added advertisement like others to earn materialistic benefits and many of the business now came in the market by the name of islam but those actually are not playing on behalf of islam. Look Indian advertisement how spreading sexual emotions to their advertisements.

One Indian bollywood star named Catrina Kaif is displaying advertisement for a mango juice and it is displayed half neckedly and a feeling of sexual reflection is there and there are many others also displaying the same and all her Bale dance are making mad to the indian generation. If you look another advertisement deodorant it is used for a male. In this advertisement an old man when polished deodorant and a girl like a daughter who was jumping on him and opening the dress, if you look this scene you will tell that advertisement director is completely a mad. If these type of culture is full in the society no one can save themselves and a class of cinema director and investors are responsible for that. Government must control and stop all necked film for the building a healthy society. They are believing one lord beside others. I think if they go back to their religion will not find religious information to adopt like this culture. And another most important problem is, we the parents are not taking care where our children are moving? Is she not died due to the consumerism? Why it is needed to go to the cinema hall for enjoying cinema? This is the tool of consumer society. This is the curse of this ideology. We have humanity for all either muslim or non-muslim but we have to control ourselves from using this ideology.

We need to have the basic need from this consumer society. You will find huge stories of un- happiness , stories of confusion and stories of miseries. This ideology is telling us lies. We are all trying to have happiness by more fun , movies, society gatherings ,dancing ,drinking , amusement , music , so much fun in world fantasy. We are all enjoying with Christian , hindu , jew together with different culture. These are now the practice of muslim and it is their culture. Most of our media infected for the non culture. When we had one media we could at least watch the program with our family and children. I remember still now Professor Abdullah Saeed sir was presenting program and speaking soberly and a simple man with a white dress we called the dress “ Pajama Panjabi”. We were searching news paper to watch his program. Where are those program? We have now a lot of channel but the standard is zero. Most of young generation are going to lose our muslim heritage. In any of the media, our religious learned are not invited and if anyone wants to speak about Islam there is no chance at all. Last 10 years I myself stop TV at my home when I saw my daughter was made a comment for one of the dialect from a dramatic actor. We had hope after liberation we will be one nation who will be a prestigious nation in the world. The necked advertisement , face book , internet net working , Mobile is destroying most of our young generation. Every parent must control their children by using those. We must teach them for the bad impact of these. A big percent of teen ager are destroying their golden life by face book and many couple are divorcing from this now a days. Government must take an initiative to control of non culture and make amendment rules for the social crime which cannot be delayed month after month.

Any abnormal incident are happening the nation wants to have severe punishment so that the crime will be lessen. Rule is not for giving punishment to the criminal , rule is for reducing crime and we are seeing a lot of major crime is floating in the society and there is no justice. This way people will lost hope , criminal will be safe and social crisis will increase. In our time school , college or university was teaching us some general principles for the society. Most of the teachers we found honest and religious. They were teaching us and highlighted about religious activities. Now a days students are not safe in the institutions. Most of the teachers are involved in dirty politics. This way country cannot rise. Country will rise if the law and rules are applying correctly, if people accepting and applying in their daily life and honest administration go near to the people.

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